For those who love too much · For individuals and couples · Online and in person
When loving becomes losing yourself.
It's called love addiction: staying in relationships that drain you, choosing the same kind of person again and again, mistaking anxiety for love. A path that combines psychology, body and breath to step out of these patterns — and understand what's actually true for you.
I don't work to fix relationships. I work to make them real. Sometimes that means transforming them deeply. Sometimes it means letting them go. Either way, the point isn't staying together: it's stopping to betray yourself.
The vision
Love addiction isn't loving too much. It's loving while having lost yourself.
Those who love in a dependent way don't have a heart that's too big: they learned, very early on, that to be loved they had to disappear. So love becomes waiting, control, sacrifice, fear of being alone. And the relationship, instead of being home, becomes the mirror of wounds we often can't see alone. That's why I don't believe in relationships to be saved at all costs. I believe in relationships to be looked at honestly — with presence, with the body. And when that's no longer possible, even letting go can become a clear, respectful, necessary act.
Il riposizionamento
Il problema non è amare troppo. È aver imparato ad amare senza sicurezza emotiva.
La dipendenza affettiva non nasce dall'amore. Nasce da un sistema nervoso che, da sempre, associa l'amore all'insicurezza, all'attesa, alla paura di essere abbandonati. Per questo cambiare con la sola volontà non basta: il corpo continua a reagire come ha imparato.
Lavoriamo sull'attaccamento, sui pattern di trauma bonding, sulla regolazione del sistema nervoso e sulla sicurezza emotiva — perché un legame autentico diventi possibile, dentro e fuori la relazione.
Three levels of work
Every path works on three dimensions that cannot be separated
Psychological
Relational dynamics, attachment styles, the patterns of love addiction that keep repeating: the dance between the one who pursues and the one who withdraws.
Somatic
The body knows before the mind. Through breath we work on the nervous system and on what stays stuck.
Deep
The relationship as a mirror: what is it showing, what is it asking to change.
Ready to actually look at what's happening?
This work is for those who want to step out of the patterns of love addiction and stop telling themselves stories. Not for those looking for a quick fix.
See the PathHow we work together
Multiple doors in. Same direction: toward what is true.
Who this work is for
This work is for you if
You keep finding yourself in the same relational patterns.
You keep choosing the same kind of person and it always ends the same way.
You often think that if only you changed enough, the other would change too.
You feel confused between staying and leaving.
You've lived 'right' but empty relationships, or intense ones that activate everything.
You love… and at the same time you want to run.
You sense the problem isn't only mental.
You want to understand what's actually true for you.
If you recognized yourself in this list, you're not "too much" and you're not wrong. What you describe has a name — it's called love addiction — and that's exactly where the work can begin.
Not sure if it's love addiction?
Many people live with love addiction for years without giving it a name. I'm preparing a free, private test: twelve questions to understand how present it is in your life — and what the first possible step is. No judgment, just an honest mirror.
Notify meWhat I don't promise
I don't promise to save every relationship. I don't promise that staying together is always the right choice. I don't promise quick fixes. I promise an honest space to look at the reality of the relationship without filters. Because a relationship changes only when we stop telling ourselves stories.
What actually changes
Working together
You stop reacting in the same way.
You start to actually feel, not just understand.
You quickly recognize the mechanisms of love addiction.
You learn to stay in conflict without running.
You start to choose, not just endure.
You get your energy and direction back.
If you sense it's time
If you sense it's time to step out of the patterns of love addiction and actually look at what's happening in your relational life.
I don't save relationships. I help make them real.